Skip possible where_clause_object_safety lints when checking `multiple_supertrait_upcastable`
Fix#106247
To achieve this, I lifted the `WhereClauseReferencesSelf` out from `object_safety_violations` and move it into `is_object_safe` (which is changed to a new query).
cc `@dtolnay`
r? `@compiler-errors`
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