Rollup merge of #105317 - RalfJung:retag-rework, r=oli-obk

make retagging work even with 'unstable' places

This is based on top of https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/105301. Only the last two commits are new.

While investigating https://github.com/rust-lang/unsafe-code-guidelines/issues/381 I realized that we would have caught this issue much earlier if the add_retag pass wouldn't bail out on assignments of the form `*ptr = ...`.

So this PR changes our retag strategy:
- When a new reference is created via `Rvalue::Ref` (or a raw ptr via `Rvalue::AddressOf`), we do the retagging as part of just executing that address-taking operation.
- For everything else, we still insert retags -- these retags basically serve to ensure that references stored in local variables (and their fields) are always freshly tagged, so skipping this for assignments like `*ptr = ...` is less egregious.
r? ```@oli-obk```

compiler/rustc_middle/src/mir/syntax.rs

@@ -400,7 +400,7 @@ impl std::fmt::Display for NonDivergingIntrinsic<'_> {
 #[derive(Copy, Clone, TyEncodable, TyDecodable, Debug, PartialEq, Eq, Hash, HashStable)]
 #[rustc_pass_by_value]
 pub enum RetagKind {
-    /// The initial retag when entering a function.
+    /// The initial retag of arguments when entering a function.
     FnEntry,
     /// Retag preparing for a two-phase borrow.
     TwoPhase,