Auto merge of #88759 - Amanieu:panic_in_drop, r=nagisa,eddyb

Add -Z panic-in-drop={unwind,abort} command-line option

This PR changes `Drop` to abort if an unwinding panic attempts to escape it, making the process abort instead. This has several benefits:
- The current behavior when unwinding out of `Drop` is very unintuitive and easy to miss: unwinding continues, but the remaining drops in scope are simply leaked.
- A lot of unsafe code doesn't expect drops to unwind, which can lead to unsoundness:
  - https://github.com/servo/rust-smallvec/issues/14
  - https://github.com/bluss/arrayvec/issues/3
- There is a code size and compilation time cost to this: LLVM needs to generate extra landing pads out of all calls in a drop implementation. This can compound when functions are inlined since unwinding will then continue on to process drops in the callee, which can itself unwind, etc.
  - Initial measurements show a 3% size reduction and up to 10% compilation time reduction on some crates (`syn`).

One thing to note about `-Z panic-in-drop=abort` is that *all* crates must be built with this option for it to be sound since it makes the compiler assume that dropping `Box<dyn Any>` will never unwind.

cc https://github.com/rust-lang/lang-team/issues/97

compiler/rustc_interface/src/tests.rs

@@ -743,6 +743,7 @@ fn test_debugging_options_tracking_hash() {
     tracked!(no_profiler_runtime, true);
     tracked!(osx_rpath_install_name, true);
     tracked!(panic_abort_tests, true);
+    tracked!(panic_in_drop, PanicStrategy::Abort);
     tracked!(partially_uninit_const_threshold, Some(123));
     tracked!(plt, Some(true));
     tracked!(polonius, true);