Add toggle for parse_meta_item unsafe parsing

This makes it possible for the `unsafe(...)` syntax to only be
valid at the top level, and the `NestedMetaItem`s will automatically
reject `unsafe(...)`.

compiler/rustc_parse/src/errors.rs

@@ -3188,6 +3188,7 @@ pub(crate) struct DotDotRangeAttribute {
 #[note]
 pub struct InvalidAttrUnsafe {
     #[primary_span]
+    #[label]
     pub span: Span,
     pub name: Path,
 }